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my fiance seems to want to spend more time playing with my son than spending time with me all the time how should I take that?

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jessesmama22

Asked by jessesmama22 at 9:11 PM on Sep. 17, 2010 in Relationships

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  • Be happy. My husband wants nothing to do with his daughter most of the time.
    bridgetgrace89

    Answer by bridgetgrace89 at 9:13 PM on Sep. 17, 2010

  • Are you sure it's more time? Or is it just that he has a hobby that boys and men like to do? Maybe you can include yourself or find something you can do with you fiance that he would like. Don't take it personally because it's good he wants to spend time with your son. Just focus on ways you can be there too.
    SylviaNCali

    Answer by SylviaNCali at 9:14 PM on Sep. 17, 2010

  • I say be greatful! But you do need time for the both of you so maybe just try to plan that for you two...but dont tell him hes giving your son too much attention...there is no such thing lol.
    PerfectLove910

    Answer by PerfectLove910 at 9:15 PM on Sep. 17, 2010

  • Sounds like he is going to a great step dad.
    Melbornj

    Answer by Melbornj at 9:17 PM on Sep. 17, 2010

  • be happy my wants to spend more time playing ps3 and is driving me crazy
    evelyn334

    Answer by evelyn334 at 9:25 PM on Sep. 17, 2010

  • Be happy . Imagine if it was the other way around would you complain then ? Be careful what you ask for.
    Blue1212

    Answer by Blue1212 at 9:30 PM on Sep. 17, 2010

  • uh be grateful!
    harris4

    Answer by harris4 at 9:33 PM on Sep. 17, 2010

  • I've never heard this complaint! lol. For us all day is kid day until bedtime where it is adult time. Then we have date nights that are just for the two of us (which I suggest since you feel you want more time with your SO). I'd be happy that your SO loves him so much that he wants to play with him so much:)
    worriedmommy600

    Answer by worriedmommy600 at 9:51 PM on Sep. 17, 2010

  • be happy.
    hobbitswife04

    Answer by hobbitswife04 at 11:12 PM on Sep. 17, 2010

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