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how do you keep things spicey? adult content

My husband works more than full time, and goes to school. We have a six month old son, who we are co-sleeping with. Usually one of us is too tired to have sex when we have to opportunity. We are both very sexually frustrated right now. Its been over a month. Our anniversary is coming up and I'm trying to come up with something special. My mom said she would babysit for as long as we want that night. Any ideas?

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Asked by GingerMom33 at 9:29 PM on Sep. 17, 2010 in Relationships

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  • Well...what did you and your husband like to do before baby/marriage? Maybe recreate that 'first night'. Do some roleplaying (if you're into that). Be very sensual, touch and smell is key so make/order dinner that is both of your favorites and take a long night to relax and reexplore each other. Don't be afraid to get all primal in it either. Go for the long passionate kisses, to frenzied blood boiling ones.

    Good luck momma. ;D

    Answer by Mrs.Halloween at 9:38 PM on Sep. 17, 2010

  • Try something you've never tried before!! Completly surprise him that way he has something to think about when he's working and schoolin late by the time he gets home his thoughts completly overtake his sleep and he wont be able to get enough of you!! Another thing if the baby is sleeping in the bed wait until he falls asleep then call your dh in the bathroom turn off the light and make out with him catch him by surprise :0) good luck

    Answer by Ahh..Motherhood at 10:27 PM on Sep. 17, 2010

  • Here's a start... go to Frederick's.. get some hot lingerie, set the scene.. dim the lights, tons of candles, sexy music, porn on the TV (muted of course).... to be continued.. LOL! Have fun hun!!!

    Answer by FeelinYummy at 11:13 PM on Sep. 17, 2010

  • Do something new. Or try a homemade dinner, followed by dancing in the living room, or a movie snuggling together, followed by lots of fun in other parts of the house!

    Answer by QueenMomma2023 at 12:08 PM on Sep. 18, 2010

  • send him suggestive email or texts for days leading up to the date so he is eagerly anticipating the night. Cook together, keep it simple, feed each other and play, get him simmering while dinner simmers on the stove; get sexy things for dessert: feed each other chocolate covered strawberries or just a simple piece of chocolate; kiss and share. Have fun with whipped cream and chocolate syrup....don't rush to the "main event." Take all night, savor the moment, be IN THE MOMENT. Then snuggle skin to skin all night long. You could also send him a link to the positions (I think Mens Health magazine and probably Cosmo and Redbook have them) and you can each privately pick a couple you want to try and then share...

    Answer by wishbearmom at 3:41 PM on Sep. 18, 2010

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