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Be Direct Please!

Why do boys never actually say what they mean? I told my boyfriend I would see him around 4..and he said, "or sooner if you'd like." Why not be direct and say, "I'd like to see you sooner?" I don't understand guys.

 
Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 3:52 PM on Sep. 18, 2010 in Relationships

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Answers (12)
  • Sounds like flirting to me. I wouldn't call that a "boy" thing.
    SWasson

    Answer by SWasson at 4:42 PM on Sep. 18, 2010

  • Because HE wants to see you sooner, but he's afraid YOU don't want to. Because sometimes they act like girls. Because they can be so damn simple minded that it complicates things. And because their little empty box is not always empty, it's really full of rocks.
    Raine2001

    Answer by Raine2001 at 3:57 PM on Sep. 18, 2010

  • i don't know maybe because they are prone to rejection more than us they just don't show it. i mean that have to act macho most of the time also so that might be it too.
    meliscool72

    Answer by meliscool72 at 3:56 PM on Sep. 18, 2010

  • they idiots =)
    skittles1108

    Answer by skittles1108 at 3:54 PM on Sep. 18, 2010

  • Sounds like he was just trying to get you to say that you wanted to see him ASAP.
    Misteh

    Answer by Misteh at 3:58 PM on Sep. 18, 2010

  • Why would you get upset by this? I think it is kinda cute... he could have been like no or say something along the lines of not wanting to see you at all lol
    mrsmamaj

    Answer by mrsmamaj at 4:01 PM on Sep. 18, 2010

  • Or maybe he is just trying to be a little flirtty?
    anikahaynes1

    Answer by anikahaynes1 at 3:58 PM on Sep. 18, 2010

  • we never will!
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 4:02 PM on Sep. 18, 2010

  • Not mad. Just confused:).
    countrygirl1987

    Answer by countrygirl1987 at 4:07 PM on Sep. 18, 2010

  • I think he was trying to be coy and flirtatious.
    HotMama330

    Answer by HotMama330 at 4:10 PM on Sep. 18, 2010

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