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Am I a mommy?

I am 23 weeks pregnant with my first. Does this make me a mommy yet or do I have to wait until my baby is born?

I just want to know the politics of calling yourself a mommy.

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Asked by girlneffy at 7:51 PM on Oct. 18, 2008 in Just for Fun

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  • Yes, your a mom. :O)

    Answer by Southerncharmes at 7:53 PM on Oct. 18, 2008

  • I guess it depend on whether you consider it a "baby" or a "fetus".
    IMO, you have been a Mommy from the moment of conception! =)

    Answer by christyg at 8:00 PM on Oct. 18, 2008

  • I think it does :)

    I got balloons on mothers day and I was pregnant, no baby yet :) (well, that was my first baby, I have 3 now LOL)

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:06 PM on Oct. 18, 2008

  • Yep, you're a Mommy! : )

    Answer by heather.huckaby at 9:49 PM on Oct. 18, 2008

  • IMO, you are a mommy at the time of conception. These days, we know the sex and name and sometimes even have great 3D photos of our babies before they are out of the womb. I guess as soon as you feel like a mommy, you are one.

    Answer by manna1qd at 10:18 PM on Oct. 18, 2008

  • You are a mommy the second you become pregnant. You are already taking care of that child, therefore, you are a mommy before birth.

    Answer by FertMert at 10:47 PM on Oct. 18, 2008

  • Yes you are a mommy!!! I'm a mommy too and my little man isn't here! Congrats on being pregnant!!

    Answer by MarlyeGirl at 11:19 PM on Oct. 18, 2008

  • i agree w/ everyone else you are a mommy at the moment of conception. congrats on the pregnancy!

    Answer by jaydensmom1205 at 12:00 AM on Oct. 19, 2008

  • YUP ;-)

    Answer by LaurenKaye29 at 12:18 AM on Oct. 19, 2008

  • Your a mommy....just like moms who doesnt matter if you carry the baby or not and it doesnt matter if the baby is born yet...if you carry or just do all the hard work once they are here you are a mom...hell if your a man raising kids by yourself i still say your a mom.

    Answer by salexander at 11:06 AM on Oct. 19, 2008

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