I don't understand how a woman can live with herself by getting involved with a married man and he leaves his family to be with her, knowing she broke up a family just for her happiness. I just don't get it. And how does she not live constantly with the fear that he'll do it to her? Leave her for someone else?
Can anyone explain? And I don't want to hear the, "He wasn't happy" Fine, if he's not happy but won't go to counciling or has an affair instead of talking to his wife that's not a real reason that's an excuse and a justification. So how do you know that when he isn't "happy" with you anymore he won't go off and find someone else then? How will you feel then? I don't think you'd have much of a right to get angry since you did the same thing to another woman.
So any explainations?
Asked by Anonymous at 9:49 PM on Oct. 18, 2008 in Relationships
I can give all the excuses. He obviously wasn't happy or he wouldn't have cheated. I was young and dumb. I was insecure and needed reassurance. Whatever excuses people use. Well, they're all bullshit. I knew what I was doing and you know why I did it? Because I have always had a weakness for sexy cowboys and he was one. I didn't care that he was married. I didn't care that he had kids. I knew he would be fun to play with and he was.
Do I regret it? Yes I do. I am very glad his wife never found out and she was spared that pain. Would I do it again? No. A woman who sleeps with a married man (if she knows he's married) is doing it for selfish reasons and there is no excuse for it. Not now, then, or ever. If she doesn't know he's married then the blame can't be laid at her feet unless she stays in the relationship after she finds out. P.S. You'll notice I didn't post "Anonymous". Call me crazy.
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A woman who is seeing a married man is not the one with the issue as she is not the one married. What I don't understand is how the woman who is dating this married man (and maybe she doesn't even know he is married) is to blame when the man is the one who made a commitment to marriage? Shouldn't it be the cheating husband who is breaking up a marriage/family? If you cheat on your SO/wife/husband/bf/gf then you are the one to be blamed not the person whom they are cheating with. The only circumstance that the other person could or should be considered a home wrecker is if it were a friend or family member. In my honest opinion if you are a wife that is being cheated on then you should blame your cheating husband and leave his sorry ass.
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