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are you comfortable with your SO checking out other girls?

 
MelSwim7

Asked by MelSwim7 at 12:46 AM on Sep. 19, 2010 in Relationships

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  • im usually okay with it so long as its just a passing glance or a quick comment...if he's so stuck on her that he's not paying attention to me then its a problem. also, like one pp said, im more ok with strangers than someone he actually knows. it seems like less of a threat, like a celebrity crush or something. there are alot of times we'll check out girls together and discuss what we like or dont like about them...lol...its cool as long as he seems more interested in me than them, but the second he gets too distracted im pissed.
    LoriaAnn

    Answer by LoriaAnn at 2:31 AM on Sep. 19, 2010

  • Okay this is weird.. But.. If its a stranger I don't care, we even talk about it sometimes. ( I look at guys) BUT if its someone he knows.. Buddy better never look twice. haha
    Amelia512

    Answer by Amelia512 at 12:52 AM on Sep. 19, 2010

  • Not really. I mean, I check out other guys. We both know who we go home with at night and who we give nookie to. It's a conversation we've had multiple times because I get nervous from time to time. I know he wants just me because he gets a more lustful nookie-like look than he would if he were to see a really hot chick on the street.
    _Tam_

    Answer by _Tam_ at 12:51 AM on Sep. 19, 2010

  • Heck yea!!!
    In fact, I play a game with my bf. If I see a hot girl before he does, I say the code word, "nice shoes" and then the direction he should look. So it would go... "Jeffalicious.. nice shoes, eight o'clock" and then he'll look toward that direction and check out the girl and either high five me and agree or say, nope, try again!
    LOL! We're so silly!
    FeelinYummy

    Answer by FeelinYummy at 1:52 AM on Sep. 19, 2010

  • I actually encourage him. I ask him about the women that came into his store that day or point someone out to him when we're out somewhere. I know guys are very visual and can't help noticing good looking women, so as long as you're comfortable in your relationship, there's no harm in letting them look
    KimPippin

    Answer by KimPippin at 12:51 AM on Sep. 19, 2010

  • HELL NO...thank god that since day one my husband has never ever disrespected me that way...

    iNk-FrEaK

    Answer by iNk-FrEaK at 12:51 AM on Sep. 19, 2010

  • well kinda i mean i know he does it. its only natural but i dont want him to make it obvious and i dont want to hear about it.
    vampire2007

    Answer by vampire2007 at 12:48 AM on Sep. 19, 2010

  • Just because we're married doesn't mean we're blind!!! (In other words: yes, I'm comfortable with it, as long as looking is ALL he's doing!)
    SarahLeeMorgan

    Answer by SarahLeeMorgan at 12:48 AM on Sep. 19, 2010

  • no not really
    proudmommy690

    Answer by proudmommy690 at 12:49 AM on Sep. 19, 2010

  • my husband is worst he is not just checking woman out he like the other woman to notice him too. He wouldn't stop saying hello until he gets any kind of recongnition. There were times I feel sorry for him he is like a little child wanting attention. Also he goes near woman standing side by side with them i really can't understand why?
    ChoeBZB

    Answer by ChoeBZB at 12:54 AM on Sep. 19, 2010

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