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How can I become a stronger person? Any problems with dh get me very depress and have no motivation for anything?

How do you handle situations when things are going wrong?

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Asked by Anonymous at 6:04 PM on Sep. 19, 2010 in Relationships

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  • You process the problem and figure out a solution. Use the negative energy from the depression to figure it all out. Problems are merely opportunities to find creative ways to make things better.

    Answer by admckenzie at 6:28 PM on Sep. 19, 2010

  • I have this issue. I honestly have started to believe that there is a much bigger picture than I have seen. I am a happy person never depressed on my own but he can make me very depressed. I think he has some traits of an emotional abuser and I never allowed myself to see it before. Google emotional abuse. I was astonished when I did so yesterday and I read the list of signs and results for a woman. I have always blamed myself for everything. It has been a heavy burden to bear.

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:24 PM on Sep. 19, 2010

  • i would love to know the answer...i've stayed in many relationships for way too long because i doubted myself and felt i had to be with a man all the time to be happy. as much as i love my SO there are even times now that i feel like im selling myself short by allowing him to treat me the way he does at times. i think if i were stronger i would leave rather than exposing myself to the pain.

    Answer by LoriaAnn at 1:34 AM on Sep. 20, 2010

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