So I had an emergency c-sec with my first dd because her heart rate dropped while I was pushing. This was 3-3-09 now Im 36 weeks and have been hoping for VBAC this whole time and the doctor says hes gonna set a date for my csec my next appointment on the 21! IM SO FRUSTRATED! He says I automatically have to have another csec because of the first and he is unwilling to do it any other way? Im so sad and anxious! When will he plan the c sec and why can't I at least try to have a vaginal. Im remembering how painful the recovery was from my first csec and literally dreading this day!!! Any helpful info would be greatly appreciatedAnswer Question
Answer by aliceryannesmom at 7:35 PM on Sep. 19, 2010
You really have to talk to him and INSIST he give you some good, research based reasons why you can't go for a VBAC!!! But you need to be your homework too..... read everything you can about VBAC's so you go in the office prepared for the debate!! Stand strong, but find out his reasons as well. Don't take "because I said so" for and answer!!!
Answer by Morgain at 7:37 PM on Sep. 19, 2010
Answer by MizLee at 7:39 PM on Sep. 19, 2010
Here are some sites with some onfo... hope it helps!
Answer by Morgain at 7:44 PM on Sep. 19, 2010
Oh I feel for you!! Try not to be to upset.... use that energy to stand strong (((((((((hugs))))))))))) Keep reaching out too... it helps to talk to people that have been there!!
Answer by Morgain at 7:49 PM on Sep. 19, 2010
Answer by lundaylove at 7:49 PM on Sep. 19, 2010
Here's the link to the VBAC Group... I was thinking that too lundaylove!!
Answer by Morgain at 7:51 PM on Sep. 19, 2010
Answer by missanc at 8:35 PM on Sep. 19, 2010
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