Ok so plan is, is to talk to his 1st sgt who already knows what is kinda going on with my husband and i as ive talked about it before with the 1st sgt....well i was thinking of going to the 1st sgt and asking if they could help me get a job at the batalion...Ive never had a job (honest to god I havent, and am very pissed about it too!) and will be a single mom of 2, i would almost need someone like this to help me get a job in order for me to leave my husband, otherwise id be upside down finacially forever.
and the reason i can get a job at batalion is b/c yes he is military but recruiting right now and they do hire civilians to work at the batalion and company hq.
Asked by Anonymous at 9:59 PM on Sep. 19, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by pinkdena at 10:01 PM on Sep. 19, 2010
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Answer by LovingSAHMommy at 10:08 PM on Sep. 19, 2010
It sounds good, however, I would not discuss the reason why you are looking for a job with the 1st Sgt. Also, apply for any job on post. I use to work on post and started out at $8.25 and after working there for a year, I was making $12 an hour. This was about 6 years ago and I have heard that the starting pay for that job was about $10-11 an hour now.
Answer by JeremysMom at 10:08 PM on Sep. 19, 2010
Because for one it is unprofessional (remember technically he is still your husband's boss) and two when you do get a divorce it can come back to bite you in the butt because I have personally seen this before. You can tell him that you really need a job and need his help. You don't have to go into details, just tell him the very basics that you need a job and have never had a job before, and you need his help.
Answer by JeremysMom at 10:14 PM on Sep. 19, 2010
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