You should talk to him about your feelings if you haven't done so already. Maybe you could slow down and spend a little more time with foreplay. There are many fun things to try....you could take a nice shower together so you can both feel clean and refreshed for the big O. You could start off with a cornflour massage. It sounds strange, but that stuff is super soft and it feels so nice. Then you could take the aforementioned shower. Spend some time enjoying each other's bodies. You could also masturbate and invited him to watch or participate. If you get yourself a little more excited before intercourse, you may find that you can O at the same time or before him. Maybe you could have a date night and have a candle lit dinner at home with all the foods that are known to enhance the mood (strawberries, chocolates, clams, etc) and have a really hot conversation about each other's fantasies to get some ideas to spice things up.
at 2:50 AM on Sep. 20, 2010