I live with my boyfriends parents as he is off at boot camp. They were gracious enough to let me stay and its been really nice. We found out we were pregnant before he left and we decided on a girls name before he left. Of course it was early in the pregnancy to know for sure if it was going to be the name we stuck with....So anyway...I recently found out I was having a girl, and now his dad (grandpa) keeps refering to the baby when he rubs my belly as Ady...(for Adaline which is NOT the name we had decided on when he left) I keep saying, no name yet, please dont say that its the name...things like that and it only makes me not want the name all that much more because it would be something like he would say "i named you" type situation....am I just being pregnant or am I in anyway right in wanting to decide this with my SO the father when he comes home???
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Answer by 2BlondeBabies at 3:40 PM on Sep. 20, 2010
I would ask him "why do you keep calling the baby Ady? Did that name belong to someone special? The reason I ask is because SO and I had discussed naming the baby Bailey not Ady." If he pushes the issue I would gently but firmly remind him that this is YOUR (and SO) baby, and while you appreciate his 'suggestion' it is up to you and SO to choose the name for your baby.
Answer by MizLee at 3:47 PM on Sep. 20, 2010