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It seems like DH is more worried about spending time with the kids, then with me.

Should I be glad that he is such a great dad or a little jealous that we get no time together?


Asked by jshimmy at 4:24 PM on Sep. 20, 2010 in Relationships

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Answers (8)
  • I think I'd be extremely happy that he was such a great dad. If I needed more of his time I'd suggest a date night too though. No sense in you getting resentful of your own kids.

    Answer by Orionsgirl at 4:32 PM on Sep. 20, 2010

  • My bffs hubby WAS like this too, now they are divorced.....just sayin'!

    Answer by christyg at 4:36 PM on Sep. 20, 2010

  • lol I asked this same question last week

    Answer by jessesmama22 at 5:46 PM on Sep. 20, 2010

  • I think it depends. Does he ever want to spend time with you or is all free time with the kids? What happens when the kids go to bed?

    Answer by gulfcoastmom4 at 4:46 PM on Sep. 20, 2010

  • i voted chrisyq's answer up only because i know someone like this too and he is also divorced. it was a friend and after his divorce, i always said that i hope he meets someone who doesnt need any attention herself because he was so involved with his kids and cared about thier happiness. there needs to be something met in the middle, you cant ignore your SO.

    Answer by americansugar80 at 5:04 PM on Sep. 20, 2010

  • It depends on the situation...are you guys having marital problems?

    Answer by mom2mybabes at 5:52 PM on Sep. 20, 2010

  • we are the exact opposite. My dh is always wanting me and I have to remind him to love on ds too. It seems like whenever I am around I just get his attention but if it's just the two of them they are great!

    Answer by nellyb118 at 10:21 PM on Sep. 20, 2010

  • If you guys are married, BE GRATE-FUL ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥

    I see so many couples suffering :( .

    Answer by SissyAnn141 at 10:37 PM on Sep. 20, 2010