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How to tell him that your PREGNANT?

I have been dating a guy for a month and a half and he is still married but not with her. They haven't got the papers yet. He says he isn't ready for the baby thing yet cuz he is getting out of marriage. That is understandable but i just took a pregnancy test and it is POSITIVE. I don't know how to tell him cuz he is on the road till this weekend and it is a thing you to face to face but i still don't how to bring it up.

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 7:23 PM on Sep. 20, 2010 in Pregnancy

Answers (6)
  • Yikes!!! Just be honest when he returns, there is ni easy way to break the news.. things like this happen either way you will have to tell him and both of you will have to deal with.. by the way congrats!!! Hope it works out for you! Bringing a new life into the world is a wonderful thing!
    BobbieJo286

    Answer by BobbieJo286 at 7:33 PM on Sep. 20, 2010

  • Why are you having sex with a man who is still married? Why are you sleeping with a man that you haveonly been dating for a month and a half? I think those are better questions. You have to tell him when he gets back. Just be honest with him. Don't be surprised if he never wants to see you again. Also, don't be surprised if he wants to get married, men are strange, and he could have any number of reactions. Brace yourself and good luck!
    A.Perry

    Answer by A.Perry at 8:04 PM on Sep. 20, 2010

  • i would tell him shot you both did it so hey .i would just come out and say it .text him a pic of the test lol
    britme1027

    Answer by britme1027 at 8:06 PM on Sep. 20, 2010

  • @A.perry she didn't put the question on here to be ridiculed. she just wanted some advice. but honesty is the best policy hun. you both know sex can possibly end in pregnancy so he has to be ready to deal with the outcome
    drdavenport

    Answer by drdavenport at 8:35 PM on Sep. 20, 2010

  • I agree with the drdavenport there is no better feeling than when you are honest with someone...and you are both mature adults and know all of the consequences of being intimate with each other he will most likely freak out but you should understand that...but I am pretty sure that if the both of are close enough to get intimate then you guys will have no problem figuring out a way to solve the dilemma
    lazo060109

    Answer by lazo060109 at 8:48 PM on Sep. 20, 2010

  • Just when he get back sat him down face to face and tell him striange up if he can't expect it then leave him. just to be honest with you i dont thing he is getting a divorce from his wife. becouse if he was he would have show you some kind of paper work even a separtion decride.
    march3-2011

    Answer by march3-2011 at 10:03 PM on Sep. 20, 2010

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