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Why do alot of moms on here think i'm making a judgement in some of the things I say or ask questions on?

All i'm doing is asking questions not judgeing anyone.

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jessesmama22

Asked by jessesmama22 at 12:43 AM on Sep. 21, 2010 in About CafeMom

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  • Because you might me and just don't see it. When a lot of people are saying the same thing, you might want to take a look at it.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:48 AM on Sep. 21, 2010

  • Tone makes a huge difference, and sometimes people don't realize how what they're typing will come across to those reading it. If you're not sure, read through what you've written and in your head, replace any things or people you've named with things or people who are important to you. Ask yourself if you'd be offended or not trusting of someone who asked you the "new" version of your question, and if you would, rephrase it.
    NotPanicking

    Answer by NotPanicking at 2:03 AM on Sep. 21, 2010

  • because they are judgmental people. People will always see themselves in others. If they would do something, their assumption is you are too.
    Liansmommie

    Answer by Liansmommie at 4:27 AM on Sep. 21, 2010

  • Well, I don't really know which posts you mean, but most times it's not what you say but how you say it. Could be you're coming across as judgemental even though that's not what you intend.
    HotMama330

    Answer by HotMama330 at 12:08 PM on Sep. 21, 2010

  • who knows dont worry bout it
    mekarevell

    Answer by mekarevell at 12:48 AM on Sep. 24, 2010

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