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is it cheating if he never finds out??


Asked by jesslovesyou08 at 7:32 PM on Sep. 21, 2010 in Relationships

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  • well it sure is! i did that once and it felt freakign weird to live life knowing what i did. sort of stupid! like it was a dream or something. what is the use? i am into pretty much the purity of the relationship, the sanctity i guess you'd call it. this stuff ruins that! it YES feels good at the moment, but the stronger stuff of as human being is to CREATE that with each other, with your partner (or, okay! with someone else but together with your partner!) i am talking fantasy threesomes or desires. BUT yes, it doesn't really, the cheating, exist on this other plane or level of life,,,it is in your memory! if you cheat, you become something that is not true to his idea of you. so everythign becomes a lie. why do you want that? i KNOW it is good to find people desirable or people find YOU awesome. if it is that bad, you have to get out of your present situation. OR try to reignite your twosome to HUGE levels... take it HIGHER!

    Answer by silverelf at 7:36 PM on Sep. 21, 2010

  • yes

    Answer by jennifer588 at 7:32 PM on Sep. 21, 2010

  • You're joking, right!? In case you aren't....... YES!!!

    Answer by AmiJanell at 7:33 PM on Sep. 21, 2010

  • You shouldn't cheat period... AND some way some how they will find out. IF you want to cheat, I feel that you should just go ahead and end the relationship. Nobody should make someone else that is giving 100 percent miserable.

    Answer by ajc88 at 7:33 PM on Sep. 21, 2010

  • I REALLY hope you are joking YES it's cheating

    Answer by Alyson_Torres09 at 7:40 PM on Sep. 21, 2010

  • I swear I think most of the human race has lost its brains somewhere. Alright ladies. For your lesson today we shall review the definition of cheating. Cheating means:

    cheating adj
    1: not faithful to a spouse or lover; "adulterous husbands and wives"; "a two-timing boyfriend" [syn: adulterous, cheating(a), two-timing(a)]
    2: violating accepted standards or rules; "a dirty fighter"; "used foul means to gain power"; "a nasty unsporting serve"; "fined for unsportsmanlike behavior" [syn: cheating(a), dirty, foul, unsporting, unsportsmanlike]


    a deception for profit to yourself [syn: cheat]
    Where in that definition does it say the partner has to know for it to be cheating? NOWHERE! Correct ladies. Lets move on.

    Answer by SalemWitchChild at 7:41 PM on Sep. 21, 2010

  • It is always cheating when you stray. If it looks like a duck, waddles like a duck and quacks like a duck it is still a duck. No matter waht you want to call it. If you are miserable do yourself and your so leave the relationship it will be easier on you and him both.

    Answer by dynameteduck at 7:42 PM on Sep. 21, 2010

  • Yes, because if you are an honorable person then you will know in your heart what you did was wrong. My fiance and I have an odd relationship. We have a couple of rules. Basically you can do whatever you want with anyone else but you have to tell prior to the event happening and give details and you always have to come home. See we believe that its only human nature to not be satisfied with one person sexually for the rest of your life. But we believe that you do have your soul mate. The one person you are to spend the rest of your life with. Bottom line I believe that not telling is cheating even if you do go home to the same person every night.

    Answer by ashes_leigh at 7:46 PM on Sep. 21, 2010

  • If you don't feel like there is anything wrong with it then there would be nothing for SO to "find out" about! lol

    Answer by Musicmom80 at 7:49 PM on Sep. 21, 2010

  • It is cheating if you only do it in your heart and never have physical contact. Of course it's cheating if he doesn't know.

    Answer by GrnEyedGrandma at 7:33 PM on Sep. 21, 2010

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