Has anyone else every attended marriage counseling and felt like it helped but didn't exactly get down to the problem.
My husband and i were having problems and he recommended we go. It was dif than how i thought it was going to be but it helped but the guy focused mainly on our childhood and growing up and i feel like it kinda didn't get to the point and let me really explain to my husband how i feel about our situation and we can talk now but not about certain things because i don't want to start an argument. I'm not sure if i should feel this way.
Is this normal that it helped some things and not others but still helped us to fix our relationship?
Asked by Anonymous at 8:11 PM on Sep. 21, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by Mommy2Gabrielle at 8:14 PM on Sep. 21, 2010
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Answer by Alyson_Torres09 at 8:22 PM on Sep. 21, 2010
It's great to talk about our childhood, it's the foundation of who we become, but too often people don't go beyond that. Maybe they drop out of therapy before they start to learn new tools that would help them now. I would continue going because therapy doesn't instantly make things better you have to be committed to it.
Answer by RyansMom001 at 8:30 PM on Sep. 21, 2010
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