Well i just turned 27 in March, i have noticed that my sex drive is somewhere out the window, df & i do talk about having more kids but in order to have more kids we need to have sex, so why is it that im just not in the mood, we have sex about once a month, he tries to have it but im just not into it. its not him, i love him n all i just have no desire to have sex at all, i feel so bad when i turn him away, i make up excuses n when we do have it i dnt even enjoy it.whats wrong w/me? any adviceAnswer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 9:38 PM on Sep. 21, 2010 in Relationships
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I've had a low drive since I had my daughter in November 2006. I've only recently gotten some of it back. Part of it was due to my stress level and living situation of the last two years (one fed the other and vice versa). My hormones were still a bit out of "whack" from when I had my daughter. I've been trying to find a birth control that helps in libido. Dr. Drew said to one caller many months ago that BC high in estrogen is NOT what you want, but one that is high in progesterene is. The Ortho Evra patch is a good one to use; I was on that before conceiving my daughter and we were <ahem> like bunnies. After my daughte was born, I went back to my first form of BC (couldn't tell you the name of the pill right now). I found Ortho-Cyclen and it seems to be doing fine. Just make sure he understands what's going on and that you're doing all that you can to get your libido back.
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