Ok so my best friend is my ex bf.....were not a couple but we have sex, we hold hands, kiss passionately, he calls me baby, we cuddle in bed;to try to make it more "friendish" he tells me everything...like dates he goes on, his BM drama and stuff...i tell him about my drama...he tells me he loves me but were too alike n he hates my dad.. if he thinks that then y does he call me everyday n kiss me, hold my hand & stuff? ...i tried dating another guy...completely cut off all ties for two months...he kept texting me & saying he didnt know what was what & tht he loves me...he constantly asked about me to my friends ...i couldnt stop thinking about him & eventually broke up w/ the other guy..thing is my best friend will act like he cares & be all affectionate n lead me on....then he'll meet another chick...ignore me for a week....were not 2gether so I cant say anything....ahhh what do i do? IDK I just need adviceAnswer Question
Answer by sunshinebaby209 at 12:24 AM on Oct. 20, 2008
Answer by RaulitosMommy at 12:28 AM on Oct. 20, 2008
Girl---why buy the cow when the milk is free!!! He is using you big time---I have a niece going through the same damn thing and it has been over 5 stinking years!! I told her 4 years ago we would be having this same conversation----and we have---3 years ago, 2 years, ago--and just 2 months ago. Get over it---see him for what he is---and do whatever you have to do to stay away from him. Sex is a BIG motivator---he likes the physical and you get your emotional fix---that is the pay off. He is using you and he knows how to play on your feelings. This crap about being too much alike--give me a break!!!! When he isn't getting sex from one of his girlfriends--he knows he can get you to give it to him. So either realize you are an easy target for him or get your act together and kick him out of your life. This isn't love---it is lust.
Answer by Anonymous at 12:51 AM on Oct. 20, 2008
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Answer by RaulitosMommy at 1:47 AM on Oct. 20, 2008
Stop seeing him! Don't answer his texts. Change your phone number. Do whatever you can to cut ties with him! HE is toying with your emotions. He knows you'll be there whenever he is single so therefore he i just using you! He knows you love him..he is using that to his advantage to get some on the side. So stop letting him use you like this and move the fuck on! I know it's hard and only you can decide to do this. No one here can tell u what to do, but that is just what i am seeing based on your description. I've seen it AND experienced it before. He's not worth the deep emotional feelings for!
Answer by Imogine at 2:28 AM on Oct. 20, 2008
Answer by treasured_hope at 11:39 AM on Oct. 20, 2008
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