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Do you ever regret?

I knew my husband for 6 months before we got married. No one thought we'd make it this far (5 years). Now, I'm not saying I regret it, but I'm just wondering if any of you with a short dating time regret being so hasty?

 
an-apple-a-day

Asked by an-apple-a-day at 11:15 AM on Sep. 22, 2010 in Relationships

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  • Me personally.

    Nope.. I met, dated, became engaged, and married my husband all within 5 months..

    We have now been married for 25 years.



    pixie_trix

    Answer by pixie_trix at 12:06 PM on Sep. 22, 2010

  • Nope. We met in July, I left my boyfriend and fiance, both, by Christmas... We moved in together in January... Nearly 7 years later, we are still happy and secure. We may not be the perfect 100% match on paper, but it works for us!
    SabrinaMBowen

    Answer by SabrinaMBowen at 11:18 AM on Sep. 22, 2010

  • yes
    but it gave me our daughter so no
    fiatpax

    Answer by fiatpax at 11:19 AM on Sep. 22, 2010

  • yeah i mean, me and my so are not married but we were together 9 months before i got pregnant
    so yeah, i love him alot but he has a really bad anger problem and we just dont get along quite often
    PURPULbutterfly

    Answer by PURPULbutterfly at 11:17 AM on Sep. 22, 2010

  • Nope.
    I have never regret getting married soon.
    I knew who I wanted the moment I saw him.
    He feels the same way.
    It's like, all the past guys were just duds until I got the real thing.
    Nobody thinks we'll make it to 5 years (at the 4 year mark now).
    But I have so much faith in us as does he.
    Not that we don't have our fights mind you.
    Because hell...we are not perfect.
    But those fights bring us closer and closer....not farther apart.
    Mrs.Halloween

    Answer by Mrs.Halloween at 11:20 AM on Sep. 22, 2010

  • No I don't regret it. He is perfect for me, we get along great and we love each other.
    sweetyazfl

    Answer by sweetyazfl at 11:25 AM on Sep. 22, 2010

  • i married my dh after dating 3 weeks and 1week later we found out we were prego. now 3 years later we have 18mdd and another dd due in nov. i dont regret marring him, but occasinaly i wonder what if,
    mayo9mommy

    Answer by mayo9mommy at 11:34 AM on Sep. 22, 2010

  • We started dating after a month of knowing one another and got married after a year.
    I have my doubts about our marriage, but am mostly glad we're still together.
    JazzlikeMraz

    Answer by JazzlikeMraz at 11:50 AM on Sep. 22, 2010

  • My husband and I dated for several months before we knew we were ready. We've been together for almost 4 years with a 3 year old son. There are a couple of people who didn't think it would work because we dated for a short amount of time. We were both friends before that so it's not like we didn't now each other. We couldn't be happier where we are now and wouldn't change a damn thing either.
    jilligan362

    Answer by jilligan362 at 11:57 AM on Sep. 22, 2010

  • In that because I have my kids from being with him, no. But the hard times have taken their toll and I found out what kind of person he is. He hid a lot of things for along time. Before him I didn't understand the saying I once heard about adversity not building character but revealing it. Now it's crystal clear. He is selfish, can be verbally mean and hateful when he is upset.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:58 AM on Sep. 22, 2010