I have been married for almost 2 yrs. I know that I love my husband but I am starting to think it was a mistake. I feel like our relationship completely changed. It went from he tried to now he has me he does not have to. His side of the family do not care for me bc I am too "B***hy" for them...(Idon't put up with BS). I am starting to see a side of my husband I never did before. He wants things his way all the time, does what he wants when he wants, if i talk to him about this ( i have many times) he says sorry and then does it again. If I want something (no matter what) I talk to him about it and then he tells me no...with no good reason why not...I starting to feel a little controlled... Normally i would just leave and not look back but being we are married w/kids i would rather try to work it out? Any suggestions? Besides talk....I have many many many times thats not working...I'm tired of hearing that false sorries.
Asked by Anonymous at 12:03 PM on Sep. 22, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by foxracing43701 at 12:32 PM on Sep. 22, 2010
Answer by Biz1985 at 12:07 PM on Sep. 22, 2010
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Answer by rfurlongg at 12:10 PM on Sep. 22, 2010
Been there done that and ended up developing a very old school mentality and our marriage is flourishing. My husband has completely changed! I read and practiced Fascinating Womanhood and Surrender Wife. Worked wonders for us. Its not for everyone though.
Answer by Mrs_R_G at 12:20 PM on Sep. 22, 2010
I would be asserting myself rather loudly. I would be telling him that I will not tolerate that kind of behaviour and if he doesn't pull his finger out of his arse and grow up, I'm leaving! I would mean every word of it too!
Answer by beeky at 12:51 PM on Sep. 22, 2010
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Answer by hobbitswife04 at 1:25 PM on Sep. 22, 2010
Counseling would be my alternative to divorce, unless that didn't work. Then if he isn't trying and your still not happy, than only one thing left to do is leave.
Answer by zbee at 1:46 PM on Sep. 22, 2010