I've never been one to agree with holding out on sex with your SO to punish him, it seems manipulative and immature. However my DH and I have been having some issues that I must admit is affecting my view of him. For the past couple of years he has been increasingly proving himself lazy and unreliable, characteristics I don't particularly find attractive. Combine this with the fact that his laziness has greatly added to my burden, I'm constantly exhausted. So our sex life has taken a nosedive. It seems to be a catch-22, my stress and lacking faith in him (It's not infidelity, I just can't trust him to ever do what he says he's going to do) is killing my interest in the bedroom, but I don't want this to further hurt the marriage. Discussing these core issues seems to get me nowhere. Should I just fake interest to keep things from getting worse or risk him cheating?
Asked by Anonymous at 7:12 AM on Oct. 20, 2008 in Relationships
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