Hubby and I have talked about trying a 3 some (we'd add another women to the mix). I'm not worried about me being with another women (I experimented some long before I met hubby) but my biggest fear is that he will "like" her better. Normally, I'm a very secure individual (that's why I would ever think about it).
I don't see this as turning into a regular occurrence, we would just like to give it a try once just to find out what is is like. I wouldn't even know who to ask to "join us". And we would have to set some ground rules first so no one's feelings got hurt. I don't know =-}
Asked by Anonymous at 9:38 AM on Oct. 20, 2008 in Relationships
Answer by Anonymous at 9:18 PM on Oct. 20, 2008
Answer by admckenzie at 9:59 AM on Oct. 20, 2008
Answer by Anonymous at 10:03 AM on Oct. 20, 2008
Answer by Anonymous at 10:16 AM on Oct. 20, 2008
admckenzie, thank you for the popper spelling =-) and the advice. I really have no fear of him running off with someone else (if I did then we wouldn't even talk about it). That is why I think if we did go ahead with it to calm my "what if she is better fear" there would be no penetration of the "other women". He is a very trustworthy, sensitive, understanding guy. I know that he wouldn't cross boundaries that I was uncomfortable with.
Answer by Anonymous at 10:21 AM on Oct. 20, 2008
Answer by lifeasinoit at 10:24 AM on Oct. 20, 2008
Answer by Anonymous at 12:01 PM on Oct. 20, 2008