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My husband isn't interested in sex and I'm a willing partner. Had a brief relationship wtih a man this summer and am now hurt deeply. I think I fell in love with him. What to do to get over it?? adult content

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summerlove2010

Asked by summerlove2010 at 6:47 PM on Sep. 22, 2010 in Relationships

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    jennifer588

    Answer by jennifer588 at 6:48 PM on Sep. 22, 2010

  • If you are not happy, it could be time to move on. Life is to short. Good Luck.
    sta517

    Answer by sta517 at 6:49 PM on Sep. 22, 2010

  • Divorce your husband and get on with your life. Do you really want to be a cheater?

    I can totally understand needing sex, but to cheat on your husband is nasty.
    SleepingBeautee

    Answer by SleepingBeautee at 6:49 PM on Sep. 22, 2010

  • Well my question is why isn't your husband intersted in sex with you? If it's a marriage going in the wrong direction it may be time to move on. But you need to know if you love your husband or was it just a fling because you need attention. Should you try to reconnect w/ S/O or if you don't feel anything for him , that's a different story. Best of Luck.
    MyAngel003

    Answer by MyAngel003 at 6:59 PM on Sep. 22, 2010

  • you should talk to your hubby about how u are feeling about the sex thing...to give him an oppotunity to see to your needs...maybe buy sex toys..sex pills...ect to meet your needs...and watch out bcuz you may jus be in LUST...not in LOVE with this summer guy...do try to make it work with your hubby...i think leaving someone over lack of sex is cruel...JMO...jus try other options b4 cheating again
    TezMoM

    Answer by TezMoM at 7:02 PM on Sep. 22, 2010

  • People cheat because they are not getting their needs met. The new partner is fun, and new, and interesting, and doesn't fart in bed or have any other flaws that you know about, yet. It is easy to get absorbed in the fantasy and forget that this is NOT love. The new partner meets those unmet needs for a while, but at a price. If you left your life for him, it would not be long before all those things that bug you in your marriage start showing up in the new relationship once you had him full-time.

    You will have to tell hubby. This is eating at you. Be honest and then work hard to regain the trust you have shattered. Counseling would be a very good idea for both of you to resolve why he is uninterested, and how to get past the cheating. (Tell hubby during the counseling session)
    WyndenSkie

    Answer by WyndenSkie at 7:41 PM on Sep. 22, 2010

  • Does your husband know you cheated? If not, he might have an idea. Who wants to sleep with someone when they think they have strayed or known they've strayed?
    marine_wife0520

    Answer by marine_wife0520 at 8:25 PM on Sep. 22, 2010

  • Divorce is a solution. So is praying. Do some deep soul searching. Good luck!
    Abytome

    Answer by Abytome at 11:37 PM on Sep. 22, 2010

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