To use any of the widgets that require a photo, the photo you want to use must have the privacy setting set to global.
Some of your photos have a privacy setting of 'Only My Friends'. You will not be able to add those photos to that widget.
Here's how to change the privacy settings for your photos:
Log into CafeMom.
Click on the 'Photos' tab.
Click on the 'My Photos' link on the right side of the page.
Choose the photo you want to edit.
Underneath the photo, you will see a red button that says 'Change this photo'.
Click that button to edit your photo.
Under 'Privacy', choose 'Everyone' from the pull-down menu.
Click 'Save Changes' when you are done.
^The CafeMom Admin Team
at 3:08 PM on Oct. 31, 2008