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Do you ever just want to pack ur bags and run away? Not from my kids my x and all the drama ugh,,,,,

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Asked by melissac9903 at 11:07 AM on Sep. 23, 2010 in Relationships

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  • Been there- And he still won't leave me alone! I actually did run, he was stalking me while awaiting our divorce hearing. Spent 6 months in safe houses hiding out from his dumbass... *sigh* It does get better. I just wish mine would leave me the hell alone!

    Answer by ObbyDobbie at 11:18 AM on Sep. 23, 2010

  • Yes, its a fleeting fantasy of mine. I can fantasize about driving off into the sunset and ending up on a beach with a margarita and a handsome back massager! Then I think about how boring that would eventually get. So I drift back to reality and thank God for all the drama in my life. If life were easy, why would we want to live it?

    Answer by WyndenSkie at 11:20 AM on Sep. 23, 2010

  • What is wrong with men? And they say we are drama!!!!!

    Comment by melissac9903 (original poster) at 11:20 AM on Sep. 23, 2010

  • I use to fantasize about it all the time and then one day I did just that, found an apartment and moved out. I left my husband and my kids. I was gone for 8 months dealing with things on my own. I realized that I was co-dependant and that finally all the attention I was putting on my husband and my kids (my family) to make them all happy, I wasn't making myself happy. I was angry no one appreciated what I did, and resentful that when I didn't I was blamed. I was tired of all the responsbility that was laid on me, I'm home now and I'm much happier now that I've learned I should be first in my life, its hard to understand that concept especially being co-dependant but it is the truth and I see it now. I was also diagnosed with Bipolar which by itself could have caused all this as well, coupled with co-dependancy it was bound to happen.

    Answer by blessedwboysx3 at 3:30 PM on Sep. 23, 2010

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