When you do argue, do either of you yell? I have a couple times, when I get really heated, but I try not to, I find it disrespectful. I was trying to have a conversation with my SO last night, and it was getting a little heated (we were out to dinner). We left, and I tried to diffuse the situation and kiss him and calm him down, it didn't work. To me, it wasn't a big issue, but I guess it was to him, and he got all heated and was yelling at me in the car. He isn't a yeller.
My ex-husband would yell and be demeaning, and I just don't like being yelled at in any way. I feel distant from him now, and I'm sure it will pass. I know very well he is not my ex, but I have this fear that if this type of thing happens more, then I will grow to resent him, and I will leave. I'm nervous about bringing it up, because I tend to stick my foot in my mouth and things don't come out right. Any suggestions on how to approach it?
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