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HELP!!!

I need to know something. Would anyone here stay with a man who during an arguement held a knife to your throat or mouth and threated that if you left him, he would make it so no man eve wanted you again?

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mama408

Asked by mama408 at 7:13 PM on Sep. 23, 2010 in Relationships

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Answers (15)
  • HELL NO!!! Get out of that relationship NOW!!
    CarlyCo

    Answer by CarlyCo at 7:14 PM on Sep. 23, 2010

  • Nope.

    I would be out the door, at the first available opportunity.
    pixie_trix

    Answer by pixie_trix at 7:14 PM on Sep. 23, 2010

  • hell no, id call the cops and get him put in jail.
    ScubasMommy

    Answer by ScubasMommy at 7:21 PM on Sep. 23, 2010

  • Don't walk....RUN!!!!!
    dmbutler

    Answer by dmbutler at 7:23 PM on Sep. 23, 2010

  • Not unless I had a death wish.
    bjane01

    Answer by bjane01 at 7:24 PM on Sep. 23, 2010

  • I have threatened to call the cops and he said he would burn us all alive if I did~is really scared~ I might be able to leave while he is at work but I have nowhere to go
    mama408

    Comment by mama408 (original poster) at 7:31 PM on Sep. 23, 2010

  • That's crazy! No, you shouldn't stay with him. Get out NOW! Wait till he's at work, pack your stuff up and leave. Even if you have to go to a women's shelter at first, anything is better than staying...
    Anouck

    Answer by Anouck at 7:32 PM on Sep. 23, 2010

  • No. Call the cops. That is abuse. Local law enforcement can give you a # to reach a shelter for women and children. You'd be safe there, and the people working there can tell you what your options are, they do it all that time. Don't just threaten to call the cops, call.
    soccerchik8287

    Answer by soccerchik8287 at 7:45 PM on Sep. 23, 2010

  • You need to leave! Always easier said than done. If you really want to get out, message me. I have a cousin who works w/ abused women at a shelter. I can get all the info you need to get help & try to help connect you with the right people. There are safe ways to leave.
    Katjafish

    Answer by Katjafish at 7:58 PM on Sep. 23, 2010

  • I had a man do that...I left.
    hobbitswife04

    Answer by hobbitswife04 at 8:12 PM on Sep. 23, 2010

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