Is it wrong that my husband failed to tell me that my step-daughter is pregnant? She is at the tender age of 17 and my husband never bothered to tell me for a whole entire week that she is pregnant and is planning to have an abortion? We are supposed to be able to confide in each other but I am soooo angry because he never told me. Do I have a right to be angry? When I asked him why he didn't share with me, he said he didn't want people talking about his daughter!!! He has always told me what was going on. I am really angry that he did not tell me and then he said he didn't want people to know?!?? I feel like he does not trust me enough to say, babe, don't tell anybody but ... if he thought I would tell!! It seems that whatever is going on with him, I should know and vice-versa especially if it is this serious. Am I wrong?
Asked by Anonymous at 4:44 PM on Oct. 20, 2008 in Relationships
Answer by bubblebean at 4:56 PM on Oct. 20, 2008
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Answer by Anonymous at 5:23 PM on Oct. 20, 2008
She did not ask whats your opinion on abortion, she wanted to know something completely different that has nothing to do with abortion. I guess you can see now why he didn't want to tell you, he just wanted to hurt by himself, so he wouldn't have people like this to deal with!!!!!!!!!!
Answer by Anonymous at 5:29 PM on Oct. 20, 2008
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Answer by Anonymous at 5:53 PM on Oct. 20, 2008
Try not to be too upset with your husband. He is probably is major shock and is going thorough many emotions. He needs your love and support right now. Let him know how you feel and that you are there for him. I don't think he meant to shut you out. He may have been in a bit of denial himself.
Answer by mommiedear at 9:27 PM on Oct. 20, 2008