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a lil scared

im nervous im 11 weeks tomorrow and i have 1 week to go until i go the doc apt i am nervous about the baby being ok just because im scared of miscarrying and i have heard you can with out any symptoms i just hope i see my baby and he/she is doing great....

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wiggsbabe

Asked by wiggsbabe at 12:13 AM on Sep. 24, 2010 in Pregnancy

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  • Unless your bleeding you shouldnt have anything to worry about :)
    bhoward87

    Answer by bhoward87 at 12:15 AM on Sep. 24, 2010

  • Don't stress yourself..everything will be fine..so relax & good luck
    Lovelymee23

    Answer by Lovelymee23 at 12:16 AM on Sep. 24, 2010

  • I'm sure everything will be fine!! Like bhoward87 said, unless you're bleeding, you'll be fine.
    All you can do is eat right, exercise, don't smoke, drink, snort, etc, and try to relax. You have no control beyond that of what happens in your uterus at this point, so worrying doesn't help anyone. Take some deep breaths, and trust in nature.
    musicpisces

    Answer by musicpisces at 12:17 AM on Sep. 24, 2010

  • Be positive,Every Thing is fine & will be fine
    A11

    Answer by A11 at 12:19 AM on Sep. 24, 2010

  • Breathe in and out. Take a little walk or listen to some soothing music. Do you favorite fun thing. Something to take your mind off of the worries. Having a baby is an against all odds sort of thing. Once you feel the baby moving you like whoa how did that happen? Then you see an outline of the babies foot pushing up your rib cage. You push it down it pushes back. you see at that point (even at that point) your baby has free will. Then you get to deliver this miracle, you believe God has to exist. You feel the whole united with mothers every where. That is what you have to look forward to. You are gonna have to trust that the scarry will not happen. Your gonna have to trust that you are gonna fall in love with this small person and it is going to be all about that miracle.
    Take some breaths oxygenate your baby. Your self and soothe your soul. You have so much to look forward too.
    mmmegan38

    Answer by mmmegan38 at 12:21 AM on Sep. 24, 2010

  • Don't worry or stress yourself out - that won't help the baby you are carrying! Just relax! It ill be okay. Anyone can miscarry... and look at how many healthy babies are born. Life is full of almost like luck and chance... Just hope for the best!

    You will be fine! Just chill! It is in God's hands! GL!!
    ajc88

    Answer by ajc88 at 12:37 AM on Sep. 24, 2010

  • you will be just fine hun i will be praying for you
    LoVe4Free

    Answer by LoVe4Free at 12:40 AM on Sep. 24, 2010

  • Take a deep breath. Dont stress yourself out over this. Stress is not good for you or the baby. Just have faith and everything will be fine. If you havent had issues yet than you are doing good!! Just keep a up beat and healthy attitude and stay healthy!! Good Luck and god bless!
    jorhmommy

    Answer by jorhmommy at 2:12 AM on Sep. 24, 2010

  • Stop stressing as long as your not bleeding the baby is fine :)
    LiLJeni

    Answer by LiLJeni at 4:28 AM on Sep. 24, 2010

  • Bleeding is a big sign of miscarriage but you're right there can be no signs BUT this is rare hun. Try to stay positive and look after yourself, baby should be fine x
    MeAndLo

    Answer by MeAndLo at 7:16 AM on Sep. 24, 2010

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