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Does your kid look like your DEADBEAT ex who is not in her life???


Asked by NicolesMommy at 12:46 AM on Sep. 24, 2010 in Relationships

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  • OMG YES!!! my son looks just like his father. Same face, same skin tone, same everything. He is his fathers twin....It takes a lot for me not to get mad at him. Its not his fault. Sometimes I even have to walk away when I get upset with him because he even thinks like his dad. Everything is his father!!

    Answer by Alysa505 at 7:50 AM on Sep. 24, 2010

  • Do yourselves a favor for the future and don't take it out on the kid (speaking from personal experience here). My mom always said nasty things about my dad and then in the same breath would say something about me and I didn't realize until after I was 18 why, well it's because I look JUST like my "dad". I put that in quotations because he is now a deadbeat grandpa and we don't associate ourselves with him at all. His loss.

    Answer by MamaRoberts at 12:55 AM on Sep. 24, 2010

  • ha... my oldest has his skinny body... and the way her back curves yes.. i hate it!!!

    Answer by proudmommy690 at 12:48 AM on Sep. 24, 2010

  • Ugh!!! YES!!!!! It is so hard not to call him his father's name!!! It really bothers me!!

    Answer by shareleann at 12:50 AM on Sep. 24, 2010

  • ditto mama, my kids have my ex's walk and his cleft chin, but I look past that into my babies.....they are my babys, he is just the sperm donor

    Answer by beyondhopes at 1:04 AM on Sep. 24, 2010

  • I thought she did look like me a bit more in the last few years, but today I saw HIM again! UGH! Thank God she is so cute! LOL

    Comment by NicolesMommy (original poster) at 1:07 AM on Sep. 24, 2010

  • Yes, and It sucks..

    Answer by youngmm at 1:09 AM on Sep. 24, 2010

  • my daughter is 6yrs old and thankfully NO!! my whole pregancy i was scared i was gonna have a boy, and that if i did, the baby would look like that asshole..thankgod i had a girl, and she is my lil twin!! :)

    however, he got another girl pregnant, (they arent together anymore, but me and her are actually good friends but they have a son..who will be 2 in dec..and he looks IDENTICLE to its funny, cuz when were together, i CANT say aww hes so cute!! lol..cuz thats ALL i see is my ex..

    Answer by alexis_06 at 1:13 AM on Sep. 24, 2010

  • he does , he gives me these stares his dad would, but i dnt care i love my baby.

    Answer by gabby06 at 1:14 AM on Sep. 24, 2010

  • Luckily no.

    Answer by BIMOM21 at 2:24 AM on Sep. 24, 2010