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How come evry1 is so judgemental here?

I thought cafe mom was about helping & support..but since i have started asking questions & i recieve more personal opinions than answers to help..i thought that is what cafe mom is all's why i joined atleast


Asked by Lovelymee23 at 7:38 AM on Sep. 24, 2010 in Relationships

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  • The world is full of judgmental people, several of them are bound to show up on Cafemom! It's the internet, if you look at other message boards, you see the same thing. The key is not letting people you don't know get the best of you.

    Answer by nmmama09 at 1:07 PM on Sep. 24, 2010

  • will iam no body jugde.just a friend, sorry your have so much trouble with the other cafemoms. i heve been where you are at now.lets just say i got so up set i was in tears.please dont let the witchs get 2 you.that way for a long time i have not asked any thiong up until last night. its been a while.

    Answer by ladybug36519 at 9:01 AM on Sep. 24, 2010

  • Some of the women I feel maybe aren't happy in their lives so they make difficult answers for people just really try and not let them get to you. I think some of the questions people ask they are just baiting themselves to get rude comments some of the women just can't seem to refrain from giving a helpful answer without it being rude. I feel we are here to get helpful answers to our questions and some just can't move on without a rude comment

    Answer by Moms_Angels1960 at 9:27 AM on Sep. 24, 2010

  • Some time people think others are being "judgmental" when the answers aren't what a person wants to hear. You have to keep in mind anytime you post something on here, you're going to get the good and the bad. BTW Whats the deal with posting the same question over and over in different sections?

    Answer by hobbitswife04 at 9:46 AM on Sep. 24, 2010

  • Not everyone on cafemom is judgemental and negative. lots of people have a hard time dealing with their own personal issues and take it out on others. use your judgement when dealing with people on here. please don't judge everyone just because some people try to run things, talk negative like children with a bad attitude. What you do , stay away from the drama mamas.

    Answer by canta1980 at 10:44 AM on Sep. 24, 2010