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SAY YOURE DYING

Would u help your mate find someone else?

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FreeSpriT4eva

Asked by FreeSpriT4eva at 9:26 PM on Sep. 25, 2010 in General Parenting

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  • no
    jennifer588

    Answer by jennifer588 at 9:27 PM on Sep. 25, 2010

  • maybe
    Gods_Girl1979

    Answer by Gods_Girl1979 at 9:34 PM on Sep. 25, 2010

  • heck no!
    shaysmommy5810

    Answer by shaysmommy5810 at 9:44 PM on Sep. 25, 2010

  • Sure. I would feel blessed that he would allow me to have a say in the next woman to act as mother to my children
    SabrinaMBowen

    Answer by SabrinaMBowen at 9:44 PM on Sep. 25, 2010

  • Possibly. I would not want my children to end up with someone they hate. I think my husband and children would have trouble moving on without me though, I know I would have trouble moving on without my husband.
    matthewscandi

    Answer by matthewscandi at 9:46 PM on Sep. 25, 2010

  • had this discussion with my SO..we both decided that we would at least try whether it work or not is our choice but i would want to try if i knew i was dying...
    FreeSpriT4eva

    Comment by FreeSpriT4eva (original poster) at 9:50 PM on Sep. 25, 2010

  • I wouldn't... However I would ask him to abide by my desire that he not marry anyone that isn't a bible beleiving christian, I would also ask that he not date for a year... so the kids could heal.. and that he would be able to move on to a new relationship that is HEALTHY!!
    MAKEMYDAY101

    Answer by MAKEMYDAY101 at 9:54 PM on Sep. 25, 2010

  • No, and I think its wierd on both ends. My DH died 5 years ago, I would have flipped out if he thought I'd be prepared to move on so quickly as to not even be able to wait til he was cold in the grave.
    Ginger0104

    Answer by Ginger0104 at 10:04 PM on Sep. 25, 2010

  • i wouldnt be moving on right away but i would want someone he got a feel for an was comfortable with me talking to..after he dyes..its not about sex for us..cause i really lost that after my dd was born 2yrs ago..just a friend to lean on an if it leads to sex later on i would already b comfortable..
    FreeSpriT4eva

    Comment by FreeSpriT4eva (original poster) at 10:08 PM on Sep. 25, 2010

  • I would certainly encourage him to find someone after I was gone if that was important to him but I don't think I would help him find someone.
    jjjjsmom

    Answer by jjjjsmom at 10:24 PM on Sep. 25, 2010

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