My DH is what I would call "set in his ways". His mom spoiled him so much and now i have to pay the price. He doesnt ever pick up after himself...ever. Clothes, shoes, socks underwear all once taken off is left on the floor. Juice, milk, water, cups and everything else is left on the counter after he takes them out of the fridge. He shaves, leaves hairs in sink, he poops, leaves skid marks in toilet, he pees all over the toilet seat and just leaves it there. Soda can, beer bottles, egg shells, pizza boxes, food leftovers, cigarette butts and I can go on (believe me) are left in the SINK, where I now have to use my hands to dig out all these gross items from the sink and put in the garbage. I am SICK of it. I always talk to him about it, and he tells me Im nagging him and that he would not have "this conversation" with me right now. I am tired of being the only clean adult in this house and Im just sick of it all....Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 9:34 PM on Sep. 26, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by Anonymous at 9:36 PM on Sep. 26, 2010
Answer by jennifer588 at 9:36 PM on Sep. 26, 2010
Sweetie, do not blame his mom, I always picked up after my kids, but when they went to live on their own they had to pick up or live in a pig sty , they chose to be clean which is what they were use to.
Answer by older at 9:38 PM on Sep. 26, 2010
Answer by Anonymous at 9:38 PM on Sep. 26, 2010
Answer by gertie41 at 9:40 PM on Sep. 26, 2010
Answer by travisnowensmom at 9:41 PM on Sep. 26, 2010
I can see where this would be an issue with his mom - really, why would you let your child get in the habit of never taking responsibility for their own messes? As for your husband, I wouldn't put up with that, it would be a marriage breaker for me. I do not enjoy cleaning and I certainly would not be doing that much of it because he was lazy. If I had to gather all of that up, it would go in his favorite chair for him to take care of.
Answer by scout_mom at 9:42 PM on Sep. 26, 2010
Answer by annie197445 at 9:42 PM on Sep. 26, 2010
Answer by mamagee1218 at 9:43 PM on Sep. 26, 2010
That is totally disgusting. Did he demonstrate any of this behavior while you were dating? My husband also wants you to know that your husband is not a man he is a momma's boy and it's time for him to man up and take responsibility. If he doesn't do that then I would send him packing back to his mommy and let her deal with the Frankenstein Monster she CREATED.
Answer by emerald53197 at 9:43 PM on Sep. 26, 2010
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