Do you (or did you) choose a man for logical reasons such as career, stability, kindness, or for emotional reasons such as "connection," physical attraction, excitement?
The reason I ask is that all the guys I've wanted to date are very good looking and sexy but have never turned out to be good family guys. They are usually addicts, or emotionally unavailable. I've gone out on two dates with this guy I met online who is extremely skinny, unattractive and seems inexperienced with dating. He's smart, working on a Phd in the same field I'm in, interesting to talk to, super nice, interested in me and interested in my kids. Yet it's hard for me to muster the energy to call him or plan another date with him because I'm simply not physically attracted to him. Is there something wrong with me? Should I see him again anyway, or let him go? Is it possible for a 30 yr old single mom to find a man who has everything?
Asked by Anonymous at 12:48 AM on Sep. 27, 2010 in Relationships
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