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my son woke up while me and his father were being intimate how do you handle this ? should I pretend it didnt happen or say something btw hes 1 yo

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toybar02

Asked by toybar02 at 4:32 AM on Sep. 27, 2010 in General Parenting

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  • Well, I know some people can remember pretty early in life. But I doubt that he would know or understand what was happening much less what you were saying at 1yo, if he even remembers it at all. I would just hold him for a little bit, tell him I love him, and I guess put him back to bed.
    BUTTERCUP777

    Answer by BUTTERCUP777 at 5:02 AM on Sep. 27, 2010

  • I agree with Buttercup777, my son has walk in while my husband and I have when he was that young and my son does a have really good memory but he's not scarred for life and he is 3 going on 4 now.
    txlady06

    Answer by txlady06 at 5:06 AM on Sep. 27, 2010

  • I would not say anything.
    louise2

    Answer by louise2 at 5:44 AM on Sep. 27, 2010

  • 1 year old., what are you going to say? he has NO clue to even acknowledge that you were being intimate.
    BlacksheepSati

    Answer by BlacksheepSati at 5:58 AM on Sep. 27, 2010

  • Is this a serious question???????
    Tuesdaypm

    Answer by Tuesdaypm at 5:59 AM on Sep. 27, 2010

  • At 1 I wouldn't worry but a little later in life I would maybe try and do the act a little later at night when he's a sleep or put a lock on the door for those times but you're not going to scar him this early
    Moms_Angels1960

    Answer by Moms_Angels1960 at 6:26 AM on Sep. 27, 2010

  • I think just about every child does it, even if the parents don't notice it. My son did it at two & wanted to know what mommy & daddy where doing.. I came up with some pretty lame excuse & he never asked again. =)

    Although he now knocks before he goes into someone's bedroom. (He's five now & we started teaching him that right after he walked in on us...)
    lilmoosesmom

    Answer by lilmoosesmom at 7:03 AM on Sep. 27, 2010

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