If so, how do you feel about the situation? Do the two of you have a family together?
My DH has a (possible) son that is 6 yrs old. DH was 17 when this kid was born. The "baby mama"'s parents forced him out of their lives, and now the girl has started making attempts (through me, because she knows what a big heart I have) to have them meet & develop a relationship. We have our own family & DH says it's too late, there will be too many problems caused from it, and that she just wants someone to babysit her kid while she parties her @$$ off. All of this is true, but have you been in a similar situation? What did you do?
Asked by Anonymous at 10:48 PM on Oct. 21, 2008 in Relationships
Answer by melody77 at 10:54 PM on Oct. 21, 2008
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Answer by admckenzie at 10:56 PM on Oct. 21, 2008
First off, Get a paternity test before having child/ father introduction. Secondly, DH can't say that! If that's his kid he needs to be there for him. No matter what it takes and you as his wife cannot just sit back and watch him not take part in his child's life. Whether or not its not your child. What kind of woman could support that? It's not the child's fault in any of this and lastly, She can party her ass off all she wants, its her business as long as she does it when its DH's weekend to spend with the child and her "break" time. Set some ground rules and there should be smooth sailing. Good luck!
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