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how do i get my daughter and her baby dad stop argueing in my house?

they have a 9month old and they argue about everything about whose going to change diaper or she says why he works so much helpppppppppppppppppppppppp?

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Asked by tweetylove214 at 4:44 PM on Sep. 27, 2010 in Adult Children (18+)

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  • YOu sit them both down and say the arguing is causing stress in your home and you arent going to allow it anymore suggest counseling, tell them arguing in front of their child is not good for the baby. Im assuming they live with you, its your home if they dont stop suggest he or they both find a new place to live.

    Answer by okmommy08 at 4:48 PM on Sep. 27, 2010

  • that will be good didnt think about that i hate that baby to see that but i cant let my grand son in the street you know

    Comment by tweetylove214 (original poster) at 5:09 PM on Sep. 27, 2010

  • You need to have a family meeting and let it all out and try to find a solution for you and for their arguing.

    Answer by older at 7:47 PM on Sep. 27, 2010

  • There needs to be respect in the house-lay down the law, Mama!

    Answer by NicolesMommy at 1:53 AM on Sep. 28, 2010

  • I agree, have a family meeting and let them know that you as a family need a solution.

    Answer by pnwmom at 2:02 AM on Sep. 28, 2010

  • Tell them there will be no arguing in my home or you’ll be given a month’s time to look for an apartment of your own. They are just disrespecting your household.

    Answer by musicmom08 at 6:29 PM on Sep. 28, 2010

  • Lay down the law of your house and live by that law. They apparently aren't concerned with the damage they are doing to your grand child. You are the only one who can speak up and protect him. If you don't then you are just as guilty as they are. He has no voice but yours. :(

    Answer by dgall at 9:12 PM on Sep. 28, 2010

  • Sit them both down and tell them flat out that the arguing has got to stop in YOUR house. If they want to piss and moan, they can go sit in the car and piss and moan away from the babies ears and your own. They should seek counselling for their fighting, but tell them it's disrespectful and unhealthy for the baby.

    Answer by xxhazeldovexx at 12:21 AM on Sep. 29, 2010

  • time for a family meeting but this time Big momma does the talking while the children listen and shut their mouths. its your house your rules regardless of their age

    Answer by BellaBear at 2:44 PM on Sep. 29, 2010

  • I completely agree with okmommy08!

    Answer by WomanWitty at 12:31 AM on Oct. 11, 2010

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