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how would some body tell they boyfriend it over but not trying 2 hurt them doe

because you just want 2 be friendz with them doe

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Asked by Anonymous at 10:52 AM on Jul. 2, 2008 in Teens (13-17)

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  • I've had a good time with you but I feel that a serious relationship is not what I need right now and I would rather hang out with you as a friend than as a boyfriend.

    Answer by Gretae at 11:03 AM on Jul. 2, 2008

  • Hello,
    Unfortunately you may not be able to predict how he will feel. It is only your feelings that you can do anything about. If you need to leave any relationship his or her feelings about that decision should never be the reason to stay. Give yourself a hug, tell him and do not own his feelings they do not belong to you. Good luck, it will be okay!

    Answer by rosetoes at 2:28 PM on Jul. 2, 2008

  • Just be honest and as gentle as you can. It's bound to hurt a little, but it's better than being dishonest or leading him on.

    Answer by riotgrrl at 2:37 PM on Jul. 2, 2008

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