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What are men attracted to, in a woman?

One that is looking to settle down?

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Asked by Anonymous at 11:41 AM on Sep. 28, 2010 in Relationships

Answers (9)
  • Totally depends on the guy.

    Answer by chefronswife at 11:42 AM on Sep. 28, 2010

  • Depend on the guy. For my dh is ass and legs.

    Answer by sweetyazfl at 11:44 AM on Sep. 28, 2010

  • I think that a lot of men like a woman who respects herself, and shows admiration and respect for him. Like putting off sex, making them wait shows that you have respect for yourself. Dressing nicely, and being well taken care of, being gentle and sweet. I think its really the same things they want to see in a wife in the long run. Motherly (of kids, not them) no nagging, understanding, and someone that thinks they are just wonderful for everything they do.

    Answer by -LovingMamma- at 11:45 AM on Sep. 28, 2010

  • if a man wants to settle down
    he will want a woman who does NOT "put out" even to him
    someone who is independant but also wants a man to be half in partnership
    not be the whole in, or her be the whole in
    possible other things he may look for
    kids, if he wants his own, then can she bare him child
    if he does not want kids, does she have child or children
    may look for a woman who doe snot have emotional baggage (talks about ex for example)
    he most likely will want a woman who is more of home body then a bar hound or party girl
    these are generalizations
    but imo, a woman who does not put out is a pretty commn one

    Answer by fiatpax at 11:48 AM on Sep. 28, 2010

  • chemically, and this has been proven, men are attracted to women who's pheromones are opposite to there's (they can smell it, even if they don't realize it) they are attracted to a tiny waist with relatively wide hips because instinctively they look for females to bare their children (again they don't realize it and it's even the men who don't like kids)

    Answer by aliishott2 at 12:13 PM on Sep. 28, 2010

  • full respect of urself and guy is attracted to me because of my eyes and legs.he says i have very soft smooth legs and he likes rubbing them

    Answer by diana398 at 1:13 PM on Sep. 28, 2010

  • Great personality, funny, trustworthy and loves, cares and respects herself.

    Answer by buzymamaof3 at 1:47 PM on Sep. 28, 2010

  • That she is breathing?

    Answer by tasches at 7:51 PM on Sep. 28, 2010

  • I think that's a personal issue.

    Answer by mp3mom at 11:48 PM on Sep. 28, 2010

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