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Do you consider yourself to be too nice?

I am very forgiving, and have a huge heart, i think it was how i was raised and having a mom who had issues with drugs, made me very forgiving. Everyone i know says i am too nice, how can someone be too nice. isnt that was makes the world go round, compasion?

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AbrinaSin

Asked by AbrinaSin at 2:41 PM on Sep. 28, 2010 in Relationships

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  • Nope.. I don't.. If someone doesn't deserve my kindness & respect, they wont get it.
    SuperrMommyy

    Answer by SuperrMommyy at 2:41 PM on Sep. 28, 2010

  • yes, being too nice makes people piss and shit on you
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:42 PM on Sep. 28, 2010

  • hahahaha..no. i'm too truthful to be considered ''too nice''.
    dullscissors

    Answer by dullscissors at 2:43 PM on Sep. 28, 2010

  • I am pretty nice... the mistake people often make with me is mistaking my kindness for stupidity... I have had to show my a.s.s on occasion.

    chefronswife

    Answer by chefronswife at 2:45 PM on Sep. 28, 2010

  • there is a fine line... You have to know when to protect yourself...

    Being TOO nice makes you a target for for becoming everyone's favorite door mat.

    If you find yourself resenting a person because you keep helping them and helping them and helping them and they never seem to show you gratitude, but always just expect you to bail them out anytime they get into a bind... Then chances are... YOU ARE BEING TOO NICE. That's when you have to learn to say, "Sorry, but my family has to come first this time."
    Crimsonia

    Answer by Crimsonia at 2:45 PM on Sep. 28, 2010

  • Nope sorry. Nobody thinks I am ever to nice, LOL.
    louise2

    Answer by louise2 at 2:47 PM on Sep. 28, 2010

  • No.. I don't consider myself to be a nice person.

    pixie_trix

    Answer by pixie_trix at 2:47 PM on Sep. 28, 2010

  • i am too nice, whole family this way
    but i would like to learn not to be
    not to be mean to all people, just want to learn to not be nice to people who crap on me
    fiatpax

    Answer by fiatpax at 2:54 PM on Sep. 28, 2010

  • i never been told i was to nice but deep down inside i am but i have my boundaries to
    melody77

    Answer by melody77 at 2:55 PM on Sep. 28, 2010

  • i have been told im to nice and didn't really think anything about it until i noticed the only time i hear from people is when they want something and normally id bend over back wards to but i came to a conclusion i am just to worn to give give give any more as long as the people i love have what they need then im good with that and every one else can be on standby
    dlover267

    Answer by dlover267 at 2:56 PM on Sep. 28, 2010

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