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Based on the responses to another BDSM related question, I'm curious. Have you actually tried anything out that would fit in the BDSM category? Do you think it directly involves sex?

If you don't know what BDSM, to quote a previous poster it's "It's an overlapping abbrevation of Bondage and Discipline (BD), Dominance and Submission (DS), Sadism and Masochism (SM)."


Asked by Anonymous at 3:40 PM on Sep. 28, 2010 in Just for Fun

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Answers (13)
  • I don't think it's all directly sexual. Alot of the games are to do with feeling empowered in some way, but it doesn't necessarily have to lead to having sex. It's an interesting movement, but it's not for me.

    Answer by ndvolz at 6:47 PM on Sep. 28, 2010

  • Yes. Sometimes, it's sexual, sometimes not. It depends on the agreement of the parties involved. Mostly, it's about power and control and the exchange of both.

    The person who taught me about BDSM used some of the practices to teach me self-discipline and self-esteem and to help me work through some personal issues.

    Answer by Anonymous at 3:45 PM on Sep. 28, 2010

  • DH is really into the restraints part. There is sometimes something fun about submitting and letting go to allow your partner full reign to pleasure you.

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 3:58 PM on Sep. 28, 2010

  • I've never tried kinky in the bedroom. But I have considered it though.

    Answer by Tori77 at 5:17 PM on Sep. 28, 2010

  • Havent done it and not sure...

    Answer by kkleywegt41 at 6:01 PM on Sep. 28, 2010

  • Not interested.

    Answer by mp3mom at 6:17 PM on Sep. 28, 2010

  • I've heard of this but have never experimented with the thinking though.

    Answer by CafeMochaMom1 at 6:30 PM on Sep. 28, 2010

  • no

    Answer by mag12305cmg at 8:58 PM on Sep. 28, 2010

  • No

    Answer by dirtyswifey10 at 9:39 PM on Sep. 28, 2010

  • No

    Answer by dirtyswifey10 at 9:40 PM on Sep. 28, 2010