So, I filed for a divorce, we signed a settlement agreement, were able to work things out as far as that goes. Just waiting for the judge to actually sign the agreement for us. But here's my problem... I can't get him to leave. He wants a relationship after the divorce. I don't. I just want it to be done and over with. As long as he is still in this house, it is impossible to function, cause, yes, there are still feelings there. I feel like he is taking advantage of that cause every time I tell him to leave he starts with the touchy feely things. I am scared to death of him, nd that anxiety has sent me to the hospital. He says if we can't be together then we don't need to live. Even said he would shoot me n himself and punch the bastard that ruine our marriage (which is just something he made up in his own mind a believes that I have someone else.) So...how do I get him to leave? Me leaving is not an optionAnswer Question
Answer by momof3josephs at 4:46 PM on Sep. 28, 2010
Answer by ria7 at 4:46 PM on Sep. 28, 2010
Call the police and explain this situation. If he agreed to leave in the divorce and the settlement then they should be able to escort him out. If he's threatened you, I'd go get a restraining order .
Answer by hobbitswife04 at 4:47 PM on Sep. 28, 2010
Answer by chefronswife at 4:50 PM on Sep. 28, 2010
So why isn't he out. You can get an immediate restraining order and get him out of the house. In the state where I got my divorce even without a restraining order I got my husband out in 24 hours, no abuse or threats. There is no reason for him to be there if you are divorcing. Call your local woman's shelter, they will know the laws in your state and lawyers to call. A good lawyer will know how to get your husband to have to pay for everything.
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