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hOW CAN I GET MY EX TO LOVE ME AGAIN WE SEPARATED 5 MONTHS BUT HAS BEEN DEALING BACK AND FORTH AND HE CAUGHT ME WITH A MALE FRIEND THAT I GREW UP WITH AND NOW SAID HE DOES NOT WANT TO BE WITH ME ANYMORE, WHAT SHALL I DO WE'VE BEEN TOGETHER FOR 15 YES.

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Moni870

Asked by Moni870 at 5:40 AM on Sep. 29, 2010 in Relationships

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  • Guess you shouldn't have been with your male friend...?
    Gremlyn1980

    Answer by Gremlyn1980 at 5:43 AM on Sep. 29, 2010

  • He can't make him come back. Work on yourself, that is all you can do. I'm sorry for what you are going through it isn't easy but you need to respect the fact your ex doesn't want to mend the relationship right now.

    RyansMom001

    Answer by RyansMom001 at 5:49 AM on Sep. 29, 2010

  • WHY NOT BE AROUND MY MALE FRIEND IT'S NOTHING BETWEEN US
    Moni870

    Comment by Moni870 (original poster) at 5:59 AM on Sep. 29, 2010

  • IF there is nothing between you then why did he leave? What exactly did your So catch you at? If it was infidelity I don't blame him for not wanting you.
    SalemWitchChild

    Answer by SalemWitchChild at 6:05 AM on Sep. 29, 2010

  • What do you mean by "caught" you? If you mean he saw you with another male then tell him that he is an old school friend and to grow up because you can talk to males if you want.
    DeansMother

    Answer by DeansMother at 6:06 AM on Sep. 29, 2010

  • YOu can't make him come back. He has to want to. The best thing you can do is focus on yourself .
    KyliesMom5

    Answer by KyliesMom5 at 6:49 AM on Sep. 29, 2010

  • You can't "make" somebody love you. If your husband found you with someone else, it was platonic, and he is still using that as the excuse for not being with you - he doesn't want to be with you. Focus on you, your child(ren), and get on with your life.
    Scuba

    Answer by Scuba at 7:09 AM on Sep. 29, 2010

  • let it go
    RAI2001

    Answer by RAI2001 at 7:17 AM on Sep. 29, 2010

  • If someone doesn't love you, there isn't anything you can do about it.
    Dr.Donna

    Answer by Dr.Donna at 8:07 AM on Sep. 29, 2010

  • your husband was probably looking for a reason to break it all off for good. they do it all the time.
    you were separated, and I'm afraid it sounds like he wants out.
    go find someone who is worthy of your time. that really wants you.
    if they don't treat you like a goodess, then they aren't worth it!
    ItsMe89

    Answer by ItsMe89 at 10:18 AM on Sep. 29, 2010

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