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Does anyone else have a better relationship with the ex's girlfriend than you do the ex? adult content

My two oldest father hasnt wrote or emailed or called or even seen his children in about a year now. Im fine with this but now I have the gf emailing me and being nosey on my Facebook page. What can I do about this? I dont want to be mean or start drama but Im really sick of it and dont feel I should have to communicate with her about the children when they arent hers nor does she make a effort to get the ex to come see his children. Which is why 15 years with that man drove me crazy!

Any advise???


Asked by lovinmy3babies at 2:45 PM on Sep. 29, 2010 in Relationships

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  • Do you want your ex involved? If so, ask her why he's not. Go there. He's already not involved at the moment. It's not like going there will run him off. If she starts being nasty then defriend her. It might be a little weird at first, but maybe it can be a good thing.

    Answer by Raine2001 at 3:58 PM on Sep. 29, 2010

  • defriend her? she has no right to your children.

    Answer by gracefulsky at 2:47 PM on Sep. 29, 2010

  • Ignore her.

    i get along fine with my ex, but the only time I've had a conversation with his fiance is in passing at pick up or drop off - I like her just fine, but we have good boundaries in place.

    Answer by Scuba at 2:54 PM on Sep. 29, 2010

  • Sounds like she is trying to be the intermediary between the kids and him.

    Just ignore her.

    Answer by inkedrunner at 2:55 PM on Sep. 29, 2010

  • I can ignore her all I want but shes not really nasty or anything but its just werid that I talk to her more and nothing out of the ex....who has two children with me....

    Comment by lovinmy3babies (original poster) at 3:13 PM on Sep. 29, 2010

  • After everything I would love it if they would just leave me and the kids alone. Hes nothing but broken promises and false hopes for the children. So I guess its going to get nasty even though I dont want that.Thanks Raine2001

    Comment by lovinmy3babies (original poster) at 4:14 PM on Sep. 29, 2010

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