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Brandon's mom want's us to be together through out my pregnancy and it seems like he don't wanna be there for us and shes pushing him to hard or something.

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babygirl581

Asked by babygirl581 at 8:15 PM on Sep. 29, 2010 in Relationships

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  • I think that you need to do what's best for you and your child. If he is just sticking around to make mommy happy and you unhappy in the meantime - let him go.
    Good luck.
    Jaclyn H.

    Answer by Jaclyn H. at 8:17 PM on Sep. 29, 2010

  • If his mom has to make him YOU dont want him!!!
    mUstBdeStiny08

    Answer by mUstBdeStiny08 at 8:21 PM on Sep. 29, 2010

  • forcing someone to do something is never a good idea. just leave him alone and tell your mom its your choice. if he wants to be there he will be... but make sure you keep track for how he was there or not there so later on you can at least get $$ support from him for his kid. good luck
    pinkdena

    Answer by pinkdena at 8:49 PM on Sep. 29, 2010

  • so is she your mother? your going to have a baby. grow up and listen to no one. do what you want and is best for your baby. i already feel sorry for this baby when clearly it seems this baby is going into an unhealthy situation when it seems everyone involved can't think for themselves, confused and unstable. this baby really needs support and a loving family. a family that is anxiously awaiting it's birth and yet every one is fighting about what is best for the baby. accept clearly to me no one is really thinking of whats best for it. sorry so harsh! stop dealing with him. he is a looser.
    melody77

    Answer by melody77 at 9:02 PM on Sep. 29, 2010

  • If Mommy has to force him to even be there then it's not worth the unhappiness...also you can have a relationship with his mom without involving him...
    4_28_bbboy

    Answer by 4_28_bbboy at 2:06 AM on Sep. 30, 2010

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