I wanted a baby very badly. My partner and I actually tried. But after a while, he had asked me to terminate because of complications in his life. I was stupid enough to do as he asked. He said that he would always love me, if not physically, by spirit. Now he doesn't even respond to me. When I noticed that he tried to not encounter me when he took a different door out, to avoid me (we both work at the same place, him - computer, myself - finance). The abortion has happened a little over a year ago. I stalked him last night (for the first time) because I'm thinking that he just changed his mind while I had to undergo a very sad decision.
We work at the same place and I really need to get my head together. How can I self-help myself to get rid of these feelings of rejection? This has been the only abortion I have ever had and feel terrible about it. How do I get over my feeling for him?
Asked by Anonymous at 11:51 PM on Sep. 29, 2010 in Relationships
First, I would be looking for a different job. Next, I would find a local support group that deals with abortion or loses. If you can't find one then I would consider going to a counselor to help you deal with these emotions.
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