Hi, I had post my problem yesterday. Thanks for the answers. I decided to meet and talk to the mexican girl. So now, what should I ask her? Or tell to her? I am been praying and asking God to help me to do the right decision, but just someone who is or was in my position, know how hard is. I think about my feelings for him and all the dreams to grown older together, and I can't believe that we are going thru this. I am very concern about our little ones, they adore him.
My husband told me that he doesn't want to leave our family, but that he got a very strong feeling for her. And if I tell that i don't accept that, he will drop her. Sorry but I think that what I am writing here is so ridiculous, I always though that I wouldn't consider staying with a cheater, but isn't easy to take a decision when are little ones involved, i don't want to be selfish. Thanks.
Asked by Anonymous at 6:54 AM on Oct. 23, 2008 in Relationships
Answer by lisa_ann_p at 7:13 AM on Oct. 23, 2008
Hi, I am not even considering to accept her. i will talk to her just to check out her. Because now she say that she doesn't want to live with us, and she already told him, that she doesn't want to be with him forever, after she gets there she will look for a special man for herself to married. So I guess for everyone is very clear that she is just using him to get a visa to live in the US, Just him is blind minded that doesn't see that. I even ask him about that but he doesn't believe that she is using him. She is a very good player. She even told him, that if i don't give them authorization, that she wont have sex with him, because she doesn't want destroy our family. Bull S! She is just making believe that she is a honest and good Samaritan, just him don't see the devil.
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