I had my 2nd son in July and almost from the very start had a lot of trouble adjusting.The main problem is that I feel so guilty for my oldest son. He has shown no signs of having a hard time with his new brother.But I found myself missing the one on one time with him. It's become to the point of almost obsession.I love my youngest son tremendously however regret to admit that bonding is slow which makes me feel terrible.My hormones are still a bit wacky which doesn't help.I find myself worrying if Mason (oldest) Is okay or if he has been effected negatively, almost the entire day. I cannot shut my brain off and its driving me nuts.I feel like I should be so grateful, especially since Seth was born with problems and didnt come home right away.I find myself wishing away time, wanting Seth to be a smiley 6 months old so I can enjoy time with both more easily.Seth is a bit colic and since starting teething which doesn't help.
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