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Would you allow your 9 yr old daughter to go to a boys house? Knowing she is already boy interested?????????

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motherofpearl3

Asked by motherofpearl3 at 1:20 PM on Sep. 30, 2010 in Tweens (9-12)

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  • Not without parental supervision.
    Indyk

    Answer by Indyk at 1:20 PM on Sep. 30, 2010

  • sure, if I knew there would be appropriate supervision
    peanutsmommy1

    Answer by peanutsmommy1 at 1:20 PM on Sep. 30, 2010

  • nope, but im just strict like that, when i was a kid my next door neighboor had lost her virginity at 10, by 13 her n my little brother were having a baby.
    gabby06

    Answer by gabby06 at 1:23 PM on Sep. 30, 2010

  • Not at all...
    MTM

    Answer by MTM at 1:23 PM on Sep. 30, 2010

  • i would let him come over, and stay in the livingroom.
    jennifer588

    Answer by jennifer588 at 1:25 PM on Sep. 30, 2010

  • Not by herself, but I would go over to the house and visit with the parents so the kids could have supervised play.
    6girlsrock

    Answer by 6girlsrock at 1:28 PM on Sep. 30, 2010

  • As long as they are supervised, what would be the problem? Think about it this way - are you going to keep her from going over to a boy's house from now until she's married? They have to interact with the opposite gender at some point. Supervision is the key.
    Dr.Donna

    Answer by Dr.Donna at 1:30 PM on Sep. 30, 2010

  • Not without me tagging along for the entire play date.

    My 9 and 6 yr old sons are "dating" my friends 7 and 9 yr old daughters. We get together at our houses or Chuck E Cheese for play dates. They are totally innocent.
    Orionsgirl

    Answer by Orionsgirl at 1:31 PM on Sep. 30, 2010

  • Yes. She has "boy" friends, and I have no problem with her playing with them. The same rules apply whether she is at a boy or girl friends house- Parental supervision is required. Period.
    ObbyDobbie

    Answer by ObbyDobbie at 1:34 PM on Sep. 30, 2010

  • There better be a parent that I know and trust over there otherwise, forget it. They can be at my house where I can supervise.
    duckigrrl

    Answer by duckigrrl at 1:37 PM on Sep. 30, 2010

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