25 years of marriage has taught me (and my hubby.. lol) this..
If my husband and I want to have those feelings. We have to make it happen. We have to treat each other in a manner, and do things together that bring those feelings on. When we were dating. It wasn't the things we did together that made my heart pound. It was the way my husband treated me, it was the way he looked at me, the way he touched me, the way he would smile..etc.. So in order to make my heart pound today, and everyday, my husband does those things. And vice-a-versa. Me walking by running by hand across my husband's shoulders and giving him a certain smile, makes his heart pound and foot thum far more than a night out on the town ever would.. lol. We actively do things to inspire those feelings.
Actions. Actions make people feel in love. Actions bring about the excitement, the romance, and the passion in a long term relationship..
at 9:41 PM on Sep. 30, 2010